Exploring the Pleasure Pearl in The Female Body!
Dear pleasure seekers, get ready for an explorative narrative introducing to you the wonders of the clitoris! As you may have all heard, the clitoris is quite a gem hidden within the female body. It is part of the female anatomy that is designed specifically for pleasure. If you have a clitoris, you will know exactly what we are talking about!
Ladies and gentlemen, the clitoris is a beautiful part of the human body that is sensitive to touch and stimulation. It is highly responsive and can leave your lady sexually satisfied in no time! However, most partners fail to understand the basis of clitoral stimulation. They tend to overdo it or give less attention to the clitoris.
According to sexual research, most women are known to orgasm due to clitoral simulations. Clitoral simulations lead to the strongest clitoral orgasms, leaving your partner in complete awe! Therefore to support partners and solo pleasure seekers to embrace the act of love making, our experts at Wild Fantasy have put together a step-by-step guide to help you navigate clitoral stimulations effectively and respectfully.
In this guide, we will elaborate on the pleasures of the clitoris and the beautiful ways of stimulating a clitoris, either by hand or using a sex toy. Read along and find out how you can make your sessions productive with your partner.
1. Understanding the Clitoris
Anatomy: This is going to be an exciting one! What you have seen or known as the clitoris from external experience is just not it! The clitoris is much larger than the visible part, with internal structures extending deeper into the body. What you can see externally is the tip of the clitoris which is also known as glans while about 90% of the clitoris is hidden behind the vagina wall. The glans or the tip of the clitoris is the most sensitive and often the focus of stimulation.
Sensitivity: This tiny pearl in the human body is lined with thousands and thousands of nerve endings. Therefore the clitoris is extremely sensitive to touch or any sort of stimulation. Each person’s sensitivity level may vary, so it’s important to take your time personally to understand your pleasures or explore your partner’s body day by day!
2. Build Anticipation: Foreplay is Key
Why it’s Important: Although the clitoris is quite sensitive, we suggest that you build anticipation before rushing directly to it. Direct clitoral stimulation can be overwhelming! Take your time, build anticipation by gently caressing your partner with kisses and gradually moving to rolling your tongue or sucking the sensitive clitoris. You can be free to practice other forms of foreplay as long as your partner enjoys it. Make sure you delay direct contact as much as you can as it can increase arousal and enhance sensitivity.
How to Do It: Start by focusing on areas like the neck, inner thighs, and breasts before gradually moving toward the genital area. Linger around and let your partner want it so badly. This creates a buildup of excitement and makes clitoral stimulation more pleasurable. You can also start to communicate sexily to allow your partner the joy of flirtation!
3. Start Slow and Gentle
The Approach: Although you may want to jump in head first, remember, with the female body, you must never rush in! Always start with gentle, soft touches. The clitoris can become overstimulated quickly, so easing into it allows for a more enjoyable experience.
How to Do It: Use your tongue, your fingers, and your lips to send your partner to Cloud 9. Use light circular motions with your fingers or tongue, applying minimal pressure at first. As you do so, watch over your partner and monitor their responses as you move around. As the person becomes more aroused, you can gradually increase the intensity. However, if your partner is comfortable with a moderate speed, we suggest that you continue that until they orgasm!
4. Try Different Stimulation Techniques
Circular Motions: All you need is the right speed and the art of drawing circles. This is one of the most popular methods of clitoral stimulation. Ask your partner if they would prefer your fingers or a sex toy such as a vibrator to help you with the stimulation. Move your fingers or a vibrator in slow circles around the clitoris, adjusting the pressure as needed. Remember, you can also stimulate your own self in a comfortable corner. We suggest that you try doing it in front of the mirror for focus and excitement!
Up and Down Movements: Make sure you choose a stimulation technique that is enjoyable for your partner and convenient for you. Some people enjoy an up-and-down motion or gentle side-to-side strokes. Experimenting with different patterns can help find what feels best. You can choose to move back and forth, side to side, and also apply gentle pressure.
Varying Pressure: Some pleasure seekers may prefer rough action on their clitoris. This can be anything from light flicks to firmer pressure. Always communicate with your partner to understand their preference. Give them exactly what they need!
5. Incorporating Lube
Why It’s Helpful: Lubricants are important in sexual play at all times! Lubrication reduces friction and makes the experience smoother and more enjoyable. The clitoris is a sensitive area, and dryness can lead to discomfort. Therefore when you are using your fingers or a sex toy to stimulate the clitoris, we suggest that you use a skin friendly lubricant such as a water based lubricant.
How to Use It: Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant directly to the clitoris and surrounding area before starting any direct stimulation. Water-based lubricants are the safest lubricants in the market with lesser chemical content.
6. Use Toys for Enhanced Stimulation
Clitoral Vibrators: As much as we love doing the touch of a finger, when times of need, a clitoral vibrator would be an ideal touch to send you to heaven! These can provide steady, rhythmic stimulation. Some vibrators have multiple settings, allowing you to customize the experience. You can also choose to create your own pattern or enjoy pleasures both in bed and underwater!
Pulsing Devices: Devices like clitoral suction toys or pulsating stimulators provide unique sensations that mimic oral sex or rhythmic touch. Strong brands such as Womanizer use Pleasure Air technology to send airwaves to mimic oral suction.
How to Introduce Toys: If you are not sure of how clitoral vibrators work, we suggest that you start slow and easy. Start with lower settings and gradually increase intensity, allowing your partner to guide you on what feels best. Some individuals would appreciate a slower setting while some can endure the highest setting. Therefore, to reach clitoral orgasms, we suggest that you find the right setting and remain steady on it
7. Pay Attention to Reactions and Communicate
Why It’s Crucial: Communication is the bond that keeps you and your partner drunk in love during sexual play. Everyone experiences clitoral stimulation differently, so communication is essential to ensure your partner is comfortable and enjoying the process. What you see in books or hear in movies may not always work out in the real world. Therefore, to understand what your partner prefers, we suggest that you communicate with them on technique, speed, pressure and other factors.
How to Do It: Check in verbally or observe body language to gauge how your partner is responding. If they show signs of discomfort, reduce the intensity or change techniques. Another graceful and sexy mode of communication is eye contact! You can always observe your partner and understand through their facial expressions if they are facing any sort of discomfort, or if they are enjoying themselves. Make sure you bring heaven to them!
8. Explore the Entire Vulva
Broaden the Focus: Do not stop at the clitoris but explore the hills and valleys of the entire female reproductive system. This means taking your time to explore the vulva. While the clitoris is highly sensitive, don’t forget to explore the surrounding areas. The labia, perineum, and entrance to the vagina can also provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated. You can also alternate your stimulations by penetrating the vaginal wall using your fingers. Focus on the clitoris as well to enhance your partner’s pleasure!
How to Do It: To alternate between clitoral focus and stimulation of other parts of the vulva, you can always start by rolling your tongue over the entire vulva. Take your time to explore the curves and the dents, and circling the opening of the vagina. Use your fingers, your lips to suck, and your tongue to lubricate and tickle your partner’s vulva and clitoris. For a well-rounded experience, you can use both oral and finger stimulations or, use fingers to stimulate the vulva and the clitoris at the same time! If you start seeing your partner wriggle, you’re doing it right!
9. Aftercare: Cooling Down Post-Stimulation
Why It’s Important: After intense stimulation, the clitoris may become very sensitive or even sore. This can be due to the numerous nerve endings on the clitoris and because of the rush of blood to the tip of the glans. If your partner has already reached their clitoral orgasm, make sure that you engage in a subtle and gentle aftercare. A gentle touch or light caress can help wind down the experience.
How to Do It: Offer gentle, affectionate touches and check in with your partner to ensure they feel comfortable and satisfied. You can also use ice cubes or a clean wet towel to help them calm down after a fruitful session. And to further pamper them , you can always kiss them gently and make them feel loved and special at all times.
Parting Ways with the Pearl!
The clitoris is a beautiful organ situated in the female body. Clitoral stimulation has taken female sexual pleasure over the years, giving them ample climaxes over and over again! Understanding how to stimulate the clitoris can support your sex life and let your partner feel heavenly!
Among the various female sex toys, clitoral vibrators are perfect to stimulate the clitoris. Communicate and experiment with different techniques, and remember that every individual’s preferences may differ. Take your time to explore your partner’s body and let them feel each touch, enhancing their senses!
Clitoral stimulation, when done correctly, can lead to intense pleasure and deeper connection. At Wild Fantasy, we offer a range of pleasure products to explore including Sex Toys for Her and Sex Toys for Him. Visit Wild Fantasy Australia today for a spending online shopping experience!