Extreme Sex And Safety!
BDSM is a strong aspect of a pleasure that must be discovered, explored and understood well. Mass media portrays BDSM to be a negative element in the world of sexual exploration. It is widely accepted that BDSM is painful and can be used to stir up curiosity and conversation in today’s culture. However, the right use of BDSM can be a beautiful experience that you and your partner would like to explore together!
BDSM is all about exploring the extreme levels of your sexual life by understanding how a little bit of dominance BDSM or discipline can enhance your sexual pleasures together. It is formed out of trust, consent and clear communication. BDSM is nothing as demonstrated in movies or media. It is a form of pleasure that is accepted by two individuals who are curious about sexual pleasure.
In this blog, our experts at Wild Fantasy hope to demystify BDSM and provide all pleasure seekers with a clear identification of how respectful BDSM can be when based on trust, clear communication and consent. It is a guide for beginners and curious minds to understand how BDSM can enhance your sexual life.
1. What Does BDSM Stand For?
○ Bondage
○ Discipline
○ Dominance
○ Submission
○ Sadism
○ Masochism
If you or your partner is willing to experience BDSM, remember that you do not have to go through each and every element within it. You can always pick the right aspect that fits your desires and work on it to customize it according to you and your partner’s needs.
2. Core Principles of BDSM
Before you step into the genre of BDSM, here are a few things that you would need to understand with your partner. Remember, if your partner does not like to be a part of this act, you can drop out anytime during the session. It is all about comfort and consent as communicated. Never let your partner control your desires. Make sure each action is done willingly from your end and your partners’. Here are a few key qualities for you to be mindful of in BDSM.
● Consent: Everything must be agreed upon beforehand. Make sure that you get a clear yes to proceed.
● Communication: Open discussion about limits, safe words, and desires. Sit down and have your partner open up about what they want to do to you or what they would like to receive. A list of safe words is a definite element before you step into BDSM.
● Trust: Vital for both physical and emotional safety. Make sure that the partner that you are willing to perform your acts of BDSM is trustworthy and loyal to you.
● Aftercare: Emotional support after a scene is often part of the practice. Remember that everything that you have included in your session is just a form of pleasure that you and your partner would like to experience together. However, once you have completed the session, we suggest that you comfort your partner and support each other to get back to the normal phase.
3. Types of BDSM Play
There are multiple ways for you to experience BDSM with your partner. This can be either using power exchange, bondage/ restraint, sensual play or impact play. Here are the things that you would need to include in your choice of BDSM play.
● Bondage and Restraint: Include ropes or harnesses, cuffs, or silk ties.
● Power Exchange: Dominant/submissive roles, which may be temporary or lifestyle-based. This can change when taking turns.
● Sensation Play: Includes tickling, wax play, temperature play. It can be anything from soothing massages to ticklish messes!
● Impact Play: Includes spanking, flogging, and paddling—with agreed intensity.
4. Common Misconceptions
Remember that BDSM is not a form of abuse. The entire act is a consensual experience where two partners agree to experience an experiment on extreme sexual pleasure. This can be in the form of dominant or submissive play. Remember that you do not have to be extreme to be in BDSM. Anyone regardless of their age, gender, sexual orientation or experience in exploring pleasure can step into BDSM in their own way. It is all about what you like to explore with your partner or experience as an individual as you unwind your sexual energy.
5. Tools and Safety Gear
There are quite a lot of BDSM tools and sexy accessories that you can incorporate into your session. As you may love to amplify the heat in the bedroom, make sure that you also incorporate safety gear. Including common BDSM tools such as blindfolds, handcuffs, paddles and feathers is a good start. You can also constantly check on the hygiene, and quality of the materials and reassure your partner in between to check on their comfort. Include beginner-friendly items for individuals who were just starting their journey with BDSM.
6. How to Start Exploring BDSM Safely
BDSM is a lot safer with knowledge. Both you and your partner must get together to understand the concept of BDSM and gain awareness about how to make it pleasurable. You can join online forums together and understand what other pleasure seekers have to say. Setting clear boundaries about soft and hard limits can help you be safe and enjoy your session. Remember, starting slow is key there is no need to dive in immediately. Form a list of safe words and actions that are reciprocated during the session. You can also check in with your partner in between or after each experience to know how they feel!
A Stronger Wave of Pleasure!
Unlike what you see in the media, BDSM is all about empowerment and not about pain or dominance alone. If you involve the right communication, trust and consent, you can build on your intimacy with your partner through BDSM. It is a form of pleasure that both partners would like to explore together to understand each other’s bodies and the extreme levels of pleasure that they can hold on to!
Incorporating the right tools of the right quality and function into your BDSM sessions can give you and your partner a much more fulfilling experience. Opting for body safe materials, high quality materials and functional products can be ideal for your session. Whether you are a beginner or a seasoned enthusiast, the right tools can enhance your sexual desires!
At Wild Fantasy Australia, we encourage all pleasure seekers to explore BDSM at their own pace while prioritizing safety and respect. Your partner is and will always be your partner even after the session concludes. Therefore, remember to treat them with respect while taking constant breaks to understand what they are feeling. Explore all the tools that we have for you at Wild Fantasy under Bondage toys giving you and your partner a remarkable experience together. Remember this is all about love and pleasure and not pain and dominance!
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