Intrigued by what a vibrator can do?

Troubles tackling the ends of a vibrator? We feel you too!

Vibrators have taken a twist in the women’s sexual wellness field, giving them immense pleasure over and over again. While this vibrating toy also works wonders for men in coupled and partnered play, they have certainly unlocked a different level of emotions for women, bringing them to the edge of ecstasy almost every time!

Even though this miraculous sex toy is admired and worshipped by most around the world, there have been some bustling voices and concerns about the lack of understanding of its functions. ‘What is a vibrator’, ‘What does a vibrator do’ or ‘How to orgasm with a vibrator’ are a few common questions that our experts at Wild Fantasy have come across over the years.

Therefore to bring more clarity and perspective on how to use a vibrator effectively, our experts have put together a great piece of work. The purpose of this blog is to provide a comprehensive, informative guide on how to use a vibrator, both for beginners and experienced users alike. Read along and be mesmerised by what you find!

Are There Different Types of Vibrators?

Over the years the vibrator market has improved and expanded seemingly quite well. New advancements and models have also contributed towards this success giving both men and women plenty of options to choose from. These devices differ in shape, ship, targeted erogenous zones, rhythmic functions, vibration speeds and patterns.

While the primary role of a vibrator is to act as a vibrating module, covered in soft silicone, and pass rumbling vibrations through your body, this has been complex and developed over recent times.

Other features such as air-suction technology, waterproof ability, discreteness and so on have been incorporated into these merciless devices, increasing the appeal to another level. 

Variations have risen based on the erogenous zone they are to pleasure. Here are the common vibrator categories (alongside the relevant erogenous zones) for you to keep your eyes on:

• Clitoral: The holy clitoris!
• Couple: A fair share of action for both lovers
• G-spot: Targets the hidden spot within females
• Mini: Depends on the shape. Mostly the vagina, clitoris, anus, penis, testicles
• Bullet: Glides almost anywhere; Vagina (G-spot), clitoris, anus, penis, testicles
• Wand: Exterior erogenous spots, and other parts of the body
• Rabbit: G-spot and Clitoris

Are You Choosing the Right Vibrator?

Vibrators can be expensive depending on the brand quality you choose to rely on. Opting for the right vibrating toy is not only about the value in price. As a pleasure seeker, you must consider the delicate detailing like the materials it is made of, the body safety levels, the cleanliness of the product and so on. These fine details matter especially to reduce the possibility of infections.

Other features such as speed, vibrations, rhythms and so on can be based on your needs and preferences. Regardless of whether you are a beginner, an intermediate or even a pro, speed can help you navigate your pleasure intensities.

And of course, your preferences in the type of vibrator, the budget you have in mind, the shape, intensity levels, and other advancements such as waterproof technology or discreteness can be considered depending on how you aim to satisfy yourself

Doing a little personal research can help you decide on your next Vibrator investment. You can also simply chat with our Wild Fantasy experts for better recommendations

Where To Start?

Read the Instructions

Never underestimate the importance of reading the user manual that comes with the vibrating device. Labels, user guides and instruction manuals from the original manufacturer are your first guide to understanding ‘how to use a Vibrator’.

While these miraculous devices seem quite easy to digest in terms of functions, you may need a certain level of comfort when it syncs with your sensitivities. Hence, reading through the instructions to better understand how to use the vibrator properly is sure to help you gain the comfort and relaxation you desire.

This can ensure that your pleasure is safe and meaningful as advised by the sex experts and the original manufacturers of the product!

Charging and Cleaning

Learning how to charge your Vibrator prior to your sexy session is important, to ensure you have an uninterrupted sexual session. This would save you the trouble of plugging your toy during a session.

Charging your vibrating toy can differ depending on the brand you choose. If you are to choose a battery-operated device, you would need to have a fresh batch of batteries in hand every time the mood strikes.

However, if your Vibrator is USB rechargeable, all you need is to plug it in before your session and use your toy wirelessly once it is fully charged.

Be careful about the charging times and of course, make sure your toy is well-cleaned before engaging in sexy time. Read through our cleaning and storing section to understand how to clean your vibrating device properly.

Is This Your First Time?

Finding a Comfortable Space

As comforting as a Vibrator sounds, you must also find a comfortable, private environment to relax and explore. No hindrance must hinder your sexual exploration as this can keep your mind from opening up and wanting to explore more.

Try your bedroom or a clean area away from the crowd. You can also aim for your car if that’s what you’re into!

Starting Slowly

How to use a Vibrator during sex can be important information to know, but, how to start using your Vibrator is even more important! Sex toys are intriguing and can have their appeal in so many ways.

However, to ensure that you practise unpainful and glorifying sexual explorations, we advise you to start with a low setting and gradually increase intensity to find what feels best.

A slow and mindful journey of sexual exploration is important and more satisfying. As pleasure seekers, it gives you the time to sink into your sensitivity slowly. Rushing can be painful especially if you are inexperienced and can also put you out of the mood. You might refrain from sexual activities overly, affecting your moods and your relationships.

Therefore, we advise that you share your favourite techniques for exploring sensations with your partner and explore fantasies, and desires safely and comfortably. Remember, in partnered sex or solo sex, consent is key!

Using Lubricant

Like how every recipe has its secret ingredient, we believe the secret to the most effective sexual endeavour is lubricant! At Wild Fantasy, our experts never underestimate the importance of using lubricants when exploring a vibrating toy.

There are quite a lot of lubricants or lubes that have taken over the market. Silicone, oil-based, water-based and gel-based are the most common ones used. Out of the whole lot, we recommend that you use a water-based lube.

Water-based lubricants are promising, much more delicate on the skin, reduce the risk of irritation in your intimate areas, and are easily washable. And the best part is, your Vibrator is going to love having water-based lubes as it wouldn’t ruin the silicone coating it possesses.

Using a significant amount of lube on your Vibrator and our intimate parts can help you feel enticing sensations as it reduces friction and can provide you with effortless and pleasurable stimulations!

Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

Exploring Different Areas

A Vibrator can be quite the guru in giving your orgasms if used correctly. With its vibrations and rumbling sensations, you can send moaning stimulations through the tip of your erogenous zones across your entire body.

Even if you and your partner enjoy manual play, Vibrator can be your assistant when you or your partner is weary of constant stimulations.  

Explore the different Vibrator settings such as multiple intensities, vibration combinations, patterns, waterproof technology, discreetness, miniature sizes or portability. Also do not forget to run your vibrating capsule across the multiple erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, nipples, penis premium, and inner thighs.

Add more spice to the session by exploring various environments like the back of a car, a library, during a meeting or even at your cousin’s house! 

Finding the Right Rhythm

In sex, the rhythm is how you move and decide to synchronise with your partner or your sex toy. Vibrators can do and give you a massive amount of pleasure depending on how to choose to use it.

Finding the right setting and the perfect pattern that makes your body want more and more is what finding your rhythm means. This is all included when learning how to use your vibrating toy effectively.

Remember to stick to what feels good! Even if it’s the highest or the lowest, what’s good for you might not be as good for someone else. Hence, discussing this with your partner, and finding a rhythm and pressure that feels good is the perfect way to discover new sensations.

Combining with Other Stimuli

Apart from using a Vibrator, our experts suggest that you use manual stimulations and arousing thought processes to help you reach orgasms!

Manual stimulation is primarily the use of your or your partner’s body parts, along with the use of a Vibrator. Incorporating sexy thoughts or thinking of your partner when they are away can help you reach the climax you’ve been hoping for!

How to Incorporate a Vibrator into Partnered Sex?

Communication is Key

Open communication is pure and can improve your experience with your sex toys. Incorporating a Vibrator or any other sex toy into your sexual activities may require a discussion with your partner.

While you may have accepted this notion, your partner might be against it. Practising open and honest communication with partners about desires, boundaries, and expectations in sexual exploration, must never be undermined.

Check with your partner if he or she is alright to incorporate Vibrators into sexy time. Learn about your body’s secret desires with your partner, and give them back what they desire too.

Learning how to orgasm with a vibrator can help you achieve the highest climaxes together. From slight touches to rumbling vibrations, you can explore your core sensitivities. However, it all begins with communication!  Listen, empathise and mutually respect your partner’s opinions!

Remember, never force, just communicate!

Mutual Pleasure

To further enhance your pleasures and improve your explorations, try incorporating a Vibrator into your foreplay and your intercourse to enhance mutual pleasure. This can be helping in saving your partner's energy for the final finish or simply, grasping all possibilities of sex with multiple stimulations!

Safety and Maintenance

Vibrators and literally any sex toy in general can carry bacteria. This is why our experts recommend that your toys be washed and cleaned well before and after use.

Cleaning your vibrating devices is not as hard as you may think. It requires a few easy-to-follow steps. Like your skin ritual, cleaning a sex toy too has its own benefits. Therefore as a sensible pleasure seeker, it is your responsibility to learn how to clean a sex toy.

Firstly, use an antibacterial soap and lukewarm water to lather your Vibrator. Rinse well and dry using a lint-free cloth. Storing your toy in a dust-free storage pouch, away from sunlight is quite essential for the Vibrator’s health. If you still want to be extra safe, disinfect using some of your favourite sex toy sanitizer!

Why must we clean the Vibrator, you may ask? This is because sex toys are usually made of either a porous or a non-porous material. Most vibrators are silicone, which can be both porous and non-porous depending on the silicone grade.

Our experts at Wild Fantasy recommend that you use non-porous Vibrators, with ABS plastic, this is phthalate-free. This is because it reduces the transmission of bacterial infections.

Porous means that the coating has holes. Holes can carry and store bacteria which can be transmitted the next time the toy is used. Therefore, try to stick to a non-porous Vibrator, and do not forget to wash your sex toys before and after use!

A well maintained Vibrator is sure to have a longer drawer-life! 

As mentioned earlier, charging your Vibrator is similar to fuelling your car. In order to experience uninterrupted pleasure sessions, all you’ve got to do is charge your Vibrator! Here are a few battery care tips to consider:

• USB Charging toys are faster and more efficient.
• Stick to the charging times. Do not overcharge!
• Read your manuals. Commonly charging times are about 2 hours, but can go up to 4 hours as well.
• Run time can be different too depending on the quality of the Vibrator you are using. Usually, most models have a 2 to 3 hours run time.
• Not all vibrating devices need to be charged before the first time use. Again, refer to your manual.  
• Check the charging voltage of your vibrating toy. Use the adapter from the original packing or you may overheat the device
• When charging, keep the toy in a dry area, away from water or moisture
• Plug the charge or USB cable into the port carefully. It can affect future use if not handled with care
• Observe the blinking lights on the toy and watch to see if the Vibrator signals when fully charged.
• Let the device cool down before you use it after charging!

Confidence is your strongest Armour!

Like in most matters revolving around sexual explorations, confidence is your strongest pursuit. Take your time and build confidence in using your vibrating toy, remember that there is no right or wrong way to explore your sexuality.

Do not let what society has to say get into your mind. Your exploration is your secret to keep! And so is your Vibrator.

Do not revolve around fear and society’s inability to accept sexual wellness. Instead, witness the beauty you feel and the pleasure you experience at every stage with your partner and your Vibrator. Understand how to use your vibrator safely, and simply go for it. Let the pleasures follow you wherever you go!

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Our Vibrating Conclusion

Our final say to all the beautiful pleasure seekers out there is to explore, understand and take your time with the Vibrator. What you see in movies and witness in the media may not always work for you.

Understand and learn how to use your Vibrator while also understanding what it does or even how to clean them effectively. Every session and every minute you spend exploring your body and erogenous zones in your body, opens up a different level of ecstasy. You may grow to appreciate this miraculous vibrating device in so many ways making it a staple in your bedroom!

In this blog, we have covered the importance of experimentation, safety, and communication in using a vibrator. We have also elaborated on the importance of exploring and enjoying your sexuality while keeping in mind that your sexual journey is personal and beautiful only to you!

We also highlight the key areas on how to use a vibrator and how it can enhance sexual pleasure and wellness. Remember to have a positive mind and an openness to explore your desires. Enjoy an enticing Vibrating journey and hit your climaxing spot over and over again!

If you wish to explore the endless Vibrator options we have for you at Wild Fantasy, visit us at  wildfantasy. Happy Vibrating!